Hey everybody!

[Sexual Healing Troll]

How are you peeps? I haven't been on here for a while. Wazap?

I'm still going with Joyce. I do have some concerns, though. Maybe you guys can help. She's 36. I'm 29. She wants a baby sometime. I figure she has only 4 years. I just got out of a 6-year marriage. In fact, the Maryland divorce isn't final yet. I am open to the idea of having another kid. That's all she wanted to know. She doesn't want one right now, this year or next year. Maybe in 2 years, if we're still together. I just got used to being alone, and am liking it alot. I'm afraid I might not really want another kid. She loves me, and I don't want to disappoint her, but do I eject now because I'm unsure about having another kid? I think I'll want one.

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If a woman sleeps alone, it puts a shame on all men.

[yoddleinmyvalley]

All you do is eject .....Christ she's probably knocked up now.

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You might get a lot of pussy
I get's much more

[Colleen22]

<BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Kristen ITC,Verdana,Arial">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by Sexual Healing Troll:
..I am open to the idea of having another kid.....I'm afraid I might not really want another kid.<HR></BLOCKQUOTE>


Which is it?
Make a decision so she can get on with her life.


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[mizannalee]

I have been sitting here struggling with this for quite a while now.

I have to agree with Colleen. Joyce may already be doing some thinking. She may have concerns other than the obvious ones regarding her biological clock.

Although I already know I will not be having children of my own (since I am already 42) I am not saddened by this. There are plenty of children already in this world for me to love.

You also might want to think about the child you already have.

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Now these fine ladies, they had a plan
They was out to meet the boys in the band...

[Sofa]

Have another baby for pete's sakes.


Babies are fun and they add to your life.

Baby baby baby.. I love the babies.

Even if you don't like the wife/husband.. you still have the baby to play with and keep you young.



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[boomchick]

I agree and think you really need to figure out 1) is this a person you want to spend your life with and 2) do you really want another child.

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up and down all around the world We've been
We're back You're here
Lets make the most of our time now
And if you get up
I won't let you down

[Sexual Healing Troll]

I spoke with my roommate Randy about this, and I think he said it best: (hey, he's good for something)
Don't bring up the subject again. Wait for her to bring it up and when she does, reiterate what you said previously (I'm not sure). You have control over whether or not you'll have more kids. As long as things continue to go well, don't worry about it. If she starts to turn on you because of it, you can then re-evaluate.

The bottom line is, I'm not interested in getting married, and I don't want kids right now (maybe in the future, I don't know). She's not asking for me to commit to anything, she just wants to know if I'm open to the idea. I should take her for her word, and not think she wants a kid any sooner than I do. In the meantime, I am enjoying a wonderful relationship. We cook together, we shop together, we have the most amazing sex together, we play together wonderfully. I could not be happier.

I appreciate all your sentiments, guys. And I hope this 'kid' thing doesn't come back to bite me in the ass.

And anyway, whomever I'll be with will most likely want children unless they already have kids of their own. The question is how soon do they want kids. If I was with a 25-year old, it wouldn't feel like any pressure at all. But she would still want kids eventually I bet.

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If a woman sleeps alone, it puts a shame on all men.

[yoddleinmyvalley]

The pull out method doesn't work trust me.

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You might get a lot of pussy
I get's much more